Frequently Asked Questions
Who traditionally provides gogatsu ningyo — the father’s family or the mother’s?
Traditionally, the maternal grandparents presented the dolls, but today both families often share the cost. Customs vary by region; it is best to discuss the arrangement in advance.
If there are multiple sons, should each have his own gogatsu ningyo?
In principle, gogatsu ningyo are “stand-ins” for a specific child, so one per child is ideal. In modern homes with limited space, families often display multiple kabuto (helmets) or assign different types to different sons.
Why do gogatsu ningyo displays include a bow and arrow?
The bow and arrow serves as a demon-repelling weapon, while the sword symbolizes valor and strength. Together they protect the child from evil in all directions.
Why is May 5 a national holiday in Japan?
Kodomo no Hi (Children’s Day) was established in 1948, set on May 5 to align with Tango no Sekku, with the stated purpose of “respecting the character of children and seeking their happiness.”
Are chimaki (rice cakes wrapped in bamboo leaves) or kashiwa mochi (oak-leaf rice cakes) the correct Boys’ Day food?
Both are correct in different regions. Chimaki (from Chinese/Kansai tradition) carry protective symbolism against illness. Kashiwa mochi (Kanto tradition) use oak leaves, which retain old leaves until new ones grow — symbolizing unbroken family lineage and prosperity.
Last updated: April 25, 2026